in matter of afraid to say it, that's why I'm here, to write
July 27, 2012
Dark Side : Can You Love Mine?
"To me the song is about someone sufferring with a
personality disorder. They show the person they love a mask, believing that is
what you want to love.
Instead borderlines have such insecurities, they feel they
aren't worthy of love, so 'they try to push you out' to see if you love them.
They feel if they drop their mask, you won't like what you
see.
The stupidity of the situation is that if they didn't act in
the way they did, you'd stay with them forever.
It is so hard for them to face their problems, probably 20
times harder than stopping smoking, they don't show people 'the place they
know' because they believe 'it's not pretty there' and no-one can therefore
help.
Daft thing is, it's probably the opposite. Unless you've
been in a relationship with a borderline, you've no idea of the problems and if
they'd only be themselves!
Any one feeling they relate to these lyrics, please get
help, whether you are the borderline or their partner. Too many lives are
wrecked by ignorance to this 'illness'."
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